Monthly Archives: May 2011

Message of the Week

Of all the misconceptions about love the most powerful and pervasive is the believe that ‘falling in love’ is love or at least one of the manifestations of love. It is a potent misconception, because falling in love is subjectively experienced in a very powerful fashion as an experience of love.

When a person falls in love what he or she certainly feels is ‘I love him’ or ‘I love her.’ But two problems are immediately apparent. The first is that the experienceof falling in love is specifically a sex-linked erotic experience. We do not fall in love with our children even though we may love them very deeply. We do not fall in love with our friends of the same sex—unless we are homosexually oriented—even though we may care for them greatly.

We fall in love only when we are consciously or unconsciously sexually motivated. The second problem is that the experience of falling in love is invariably temporary. No matter whom we fall in love with, we sooner or later fall out of love if the relationship continues long enough. This is not to say that we invariably cease loving the person with whom we fell in love.

But it is to say that the feeling of ecstatic lovingness that characterizes the experience of falling in love always passes. The honeymoon ends. The bloom of romance always fades.

To understand the nature of the phenomenon of falling in love and the inevitability of its ending, it is necessary to examine the nature of what psychiatrists call ego boundaries.~M.Scott Peck, pg 72, The Road Less Travelled: The classic work on relationships, spiritual growth and life’s meaning

Dark Girls Documentary: One of the effects of the Willie Lynch Letter

Dark Girls Poster

A lot of people have been brainwashed to think light skin is good and dark skin is bad when truth be told, if you really want to go deep into it, the daker you are, the more melanin you have to survive the sun. If you really want to go deeper than that, black is not a colour but absorbs all colours. White is a colour. So that means black absorbs white colour which contains all colours of the spectrum. In other words black contains all colours. It is the beginning. If you add all the colours in the world together, you get black (dark).

Even in religion, when it stated ‘let there be light’, darkness was first for there to be light. Light USES darkness to shine. Darkness has to be there first. Black (dark) doesn’t come from White (light) but white (light) comes from black (dark). But let’s not get scientifical, let’s stick to the surface, the visual stupidity of it all.

ColorMatters

Slavery may be over but the programming is still on going. If you ask me what type of women I go for, I’d say both but it’s more likely I’d look at light skin more because my mother is light skin. So from a young age, my mother was the first skin colour seen, she was the first breasts sucked. My dad is much darker than my mother, that doesn’t mean there is disrespect for him or that there should be, it simply means what every eyes have seen, what every mind has confessed and what everybody knows and that is we all come in different shades and colour. Continue reading

Jessica Claire

Jessica Claire

Jessica Claire dating advice is not bad. She coaches men and women exposing certain tactics and strategies from a woman’s perspective. Fellas do be careful though, certain advice involves how you use flowers, gifts and so on. Such areas can be dangerous, just remember less is more.

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Game from the Script: WatchTower Bible

Jehovah Bible

Disclaimer: I am a believer in the Heavenly Father and in His son Yashua (Jesus). Religion has distorted many things and so we are divided. I am not a Jehovah Witness and this post was not made to stir up conflict or arouse anger.

First of all understand that Jehovah Witnesses have their own Bibles.

Jehovah Witness Bible
WatchTower Bible

WatchTower

This religion was founded by Charles Tazell Russel, a 33rd Degree Mason. Continue reading