It is said that money first, sex last.
Money can bring sex and lots of it. A lot of golddigging women will take advantage of men with money. When or if money goes a man can be left with child support or sexual transmitted disease. Some men’s lust will not allow them to do background checks on women they stick their dick in. The moment is now, so the moment is right according to some. Most men do not have the ability to say no to sex. Some do not know when it will be on offer again so rushing at it seems appropriate.
Most men chase money so that they can eventually have lots of sex. In some twisted way it is fulfilling knowing that the tangibles they work so hard for can bring many manipulative women. These women who want nothing more than to make a name of themselves use and shake what their mama gave them. They weaken a man and so gain control of him. It is not a bad hustle!
Money and sex does not make a man. A material and a meaningless process does not make a man. And sex is meaingless without love. CHARACTER, the security and integrity of self makes a man. The Brotherhood is all about character. A lot of women will and have slept with a man of character. The man that rather work on himself, his spirituality and surroundings for the sake of earning a living. He earns a living not only to feed others but also with the understanding that it is not in a man’s nature to be lazy. It is even a punishment, a curse you could say (Adam had to start toiling the ground).
Character can be seen through action. Money is an illusion that confuses most men. They get it and feel that it has brought character with it. This illusion has caused many men to sell their souls to the devil. Sex to most is all that matters! Money boosts ego and ego spreads this illusion with the mentality that it was through shear hard work alone that made it happen. Even fools can work hard at been foolish. Hard work is PART of character not the totality. Fools can win the lottery and have a lot of sex to. This already tells that a lot of women (golddiggers) will hustle to get that money. They are ‘working’ hard to.
Seek character first fellas. Money and sex will be given to a man of substance. A man everybody feels deserves all he gets. Put sex last! Sexual interactions makes the body lose energy and decrease in performance. Players in any sports are told not to have sex the night before as it will affect progress. Mind and body must be focus on the game.
Yet when love is involved in sex, a man is and can be rejuvenated by it. Rejuvenation comes from the satisfaction that he has slept with the person he wanted. The person he loves. Sleeping around without love or a level of connection makes a man lose energy. He wastes energy. He wastes his manhood. The depletion of energy shows in different areas of his life in a negative way. Lust is not a good thing. Love is everything! So sex should be last for love to build.
The art of taking the energy of sexual desires and directing it into creativity (Sexual Transmutation) has developed character in some men. Character first, sex last is the correct motto. Although money does not determine character. Going after money is better than sex. No man has ever lost a woman by focusing on getting money. It is the love of money that the Most High warns people about. He never said one couldn’t strive to get it. Love of money brings greed not the teachings and ability to acquire it (think of the troll in ‘Lord of the Rings’).
Men have lost women going broke. But to the man of character broke or not, the woman stays. She stays with him without seeing titles. Women with a man of character don’t see a man with money, they don’t see a man that they are giving sex to, they see a man by nature not titles. He was a man with money and he is still a man without it. He will still be a man when he gains money again. Such a woman will help instead of leave.
The game is not about sleeping with as many women as possible. The game is life. It is play or be played. To play is to gain control and strategize. The game is chess! With women, a man’s aim should be to have fun. Thinking of sex with your woman all the time will hinder the relationship. Every game has an element of fun in it. A woman can never consider her relationship boring when she is always having fun. A man doesn’t have to show how much he is into her if he keeps her excited in the game. You will be connecting on a mental and spiritual level due to the physical been last. This brings emotional attachment. It will be harder for the relationship to deteiorate.
When sex is last a woman KNOWS this man is disciplined. Most of all she doesn’t feel like she will be used. Women will throw more sex in just to increase the fun (just to keep playing). Any game will always need players. Putting sex last will allow a man to connect with a woman’s mind and open up the gateway to her soul, her heart. This requires patience.
Character is shown when a man seeks to better himself and strives to handle business. Character makes a man a worthy opponent of the game. Everything else follows character and sex will definitely come to a man who is not a slave to it. Put it last and it will come. Afterall, anything last will always try to be first.
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