THE LOGIC OF THE APPROACH

Whether we are in our teens, twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, and above, knowing how to approach and feeling comfortable about it, is a process we try to master especially when we see someone we like or are getting to know.

So, it is worth examining the LOGIC of an approach. Forget opinions, but focus on logic and reasoning. Through logic the sensibility of how to approach can be derived.

Okay, let’s get logical!

It is true that nervousness stops a lot of people from approaching who they like due to the unknown that creates tension. The tension comes with fear and fear can be paralysing and so the logic here would be to remove tension. To remove it, means getting comfortable in approaching and not caring what the outcome may be.

To get comfortable in approaching, a man has to approach, therefore logic states that he shouldn’t put so much pressure on himself. The best way to ease the tension and create no pressure, is to approach for different reasons other than trying to get to know her. Logic here shows that he needs practice, and like with every activity, he will improve.

One such suggestion for practicing approaching, is for a man to approach ten women he finds appealing just to ask for directions or to ask where they got an item on their clothing. Logic states that by continually doing this, he will eventually feel more relaxed to talk about other things. Anybody can ask for directions, it is a relaxed moment and a moment that has REASON for approaching.